[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.kovohad.cz\/uz-nejsme-male-deti\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.kovohad.cz\/uz-nejsme-male-deti\/","headline":"U\u017e nejsme mal\u00e9 d\u011bti!","name":"U\u017e nejsme mal\u00e9 d\u011bti!","description":"U\u017e od mala od sv\u00fdch ratolest\u00ed sl\u00fdch\u00e1me, \u017ee u\u017e p\u0159ece nejsou mal\u00e9 d\u011bti. Kdy\u017e jim je p\u011bt let, pousm\u011bjeme se nad t\u00edmto tvrzen\u00edm. Ale co kdy\u017e jim je t\u0159eba t\u0159in\u00e1ct let? Jak\u00fd p\u0159\u00edstup k\u00a0takto star\u00e9mu \u010dlov\u011bku je ten spr\u00e1vn\u00fd? Kolik zodpov\u011bdnosti zvl\u00e1dne? A naopak kolik p\u00e9\u010de pot\u0159ebuje? \u00a0 M\u00e1 zku\u0161enost je, \u017ee je to opravdu […]","datePublished":"2020-01-11","dateModified":"2023-05-07","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.kovohad.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.kovohad.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/0412c3dad30f33fa104fa4f87b3ce5af9aea5f3e20fa015d071a3573d325a5fc?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/0412c3dad30f33fa104fa4f87b3ce5af9aea5f3e20fa015d071a3573d325a5fc?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"kovohad.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.kovohad.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a353892_w3034_t1568474762.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.kovohad.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a353892_w3034_t1568474762.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.kovohad.cz\/uz-nejsme-male-deti\/","wordCount":490,"articleBody":"U\u017e od mala od sv\u00fdch ratolest\u00ed sl\u00fdch\u00e1me, \u017ee u\u017e p\u0159ece nejsou mal\u00e9 d\u011bti. Kdy\u017e jim je p\u011bt let, pousm\u011bjeme se nad t\u00edmto tvrzen\u00edm. Ale co kdy\u017e jim je t\u0159eba t\u0159in\u00e1ct let? Jak\u00fd p\u0159\u00edstup k\u00a0takto star\u00e9mu \u010dlov\u011bku je ten spr\u00e1vn\u00fd? Kolik zodpov\u011bdnosti zvl\u00e1dne? A naopak kolik p\u00e9\u010de pot\u0159ebuje?\u00a0M\u00e1 zku\u0161enost je, \u017ee je to opravdu hodn\u011b individu\u00e1ln\u00ed. N\u011bkdy si \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m, jestli by zvl\u00e1dlo d\u00edt\u011b, kter\u00e9 m\u00e1m zrovna na starost, v\u00a0tomto v\u011bku p\u0159ej\u00edt p\u0159es p\u0159echod, kdybych ne\u0161la s\u00a0n\u00edm. Jindy zapom\u00edn\u00e1m, \u017ee mluv\u00edm s\u00a0n\u011bk\u00fdm, komu je 13 let a p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edm, zda je vlastn\u011b mo\u017en\u00e9 v\u00e9st takto zaj\u00edmav\u00fd a dosp\u011bl\u00fd rozhovor s\u00a0tak mladou osobou. Takov\u00fd puber\u0165\u00e1k m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt v\u00a0jeden moment skv\u011bl\u00fd spole\u010dn\u00edk a za okam\u017eik nepochopiteln\u00fd mimozem\u0161\u0165an, jeho\u017e jedn\u00e1n\u00ed nem\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 racion\u00e1ln\u00ed vysv\u011btlen\u00ed.\u00a0Mn\u011b osobn\u011b se osv\u011bd\u010dilo jednat s\u00a0d\u011btmi v\u017edy narovinu. Nikdo nem\u00e1 r\u00e1d, kdy\u017e mu l\u017eete. Kdy\u017e na n\u011bj hrajete n\u011bjak\u00e9 divadlo, nebo ho prost\u011b neberete v\u00e1\u017en\u011b. A d\u011bti u\u017e v\u016fbec ne! Vyc\u00edt\u00ed v\u0161e mnohem l\u00e9pe. To, jestli je m\u00e1te r\u00e1di, jestli jste \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed, nebo smutn\u00ed, i to, \u017ee jim n\u011bco taj\u00edte. Takov\u00e1 d\u016fv\u011bra je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 v\u00a0ka\u017ed\u00e9m vztahu a v\u00a0tom s\u00a0d\u011btmi p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm.\u00a0Na druhou stranu jsem nepoznala mnoho d\u011bt\u00ed, kter\u00e9 by i ve sv\u00fdch 13 letech pohrdly pala\u010dinkami, pofouk\u00e1n\u00edm bol\u00edstek, \u010di \u00fa\u010dast\u00ed v super\u00a0tajn\u00e9 h\u0159e o truhlu plnou pokladu.\u00a0Tak\u017ee to vid\u00edm tak, \u017ee takov\u00fd oby\u010dejn\u00fd puber\u0165\u00e1k pot\u0159ebuje m\u00edt n\u011bjakou tu zodpov\u011bdnost, jasn\u011b dan\u00e1 pravidla, ale mus\u00ed v\u011bd\u011bt, \u017ee kdy\u017e je pot\u0159eba, m\u00e1 se kam p\u0159ij\u00edt schovat a na koho se obr\u00e1tit.\u00a0A kdy\u017e se V\u00e1m povede naj\u00edt spole\u010dnou \u0159e\u010d, v\u011b\u0159te, \u017ee nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed odm\u011bna to bude pro V\u00e1s. V\u00a0prvn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b ubyde spousty stresu. Jako t\u0159eba co v\u00e1s doma \u010dek\u00e1 po p\u0159\u00edchodu z\u00a0pr\u00e1ce, jestli bar\u00e1k v\u016fbec je\u0161t\u011b stoj\u00ed, nebo jestli budete dnes trapn\u00ed aspo\u0148 tak m\u00e1lo, abyste se dozv\u011bd\u011bli, co se v\u00a0\u017eivot\u011b Va\u0161eho mlad\u00e9ho dosp\u011bl\u00e1ka ud\u00e1lo. Nav\u00edc je fajn se ob\u010das vr\u00e1tit o p\u00e1r let zp\u00e1tky, zapomenou na to, \u017ee bychom m\u011bli d\u011blat toto a tamto a jednou se prost\u011b od srdce zasm\u00e1t blbostem. A s\u00a0k\u00fdm se V\u00e1m to povede l\u00e9pe ne\u017e pr\u00e1v\u011b s\u00a0Va\u0161\u00edm milovan\u00fdm puber\u0165\u00e1kem.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.4\/5 - (10 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"U\u017e nejsme mal\u00e9 d\u011bti!","item":"https:\/\/www.kovohad.cz\/uz-nejsme-male-deti\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]